You masturbate. Your partner masturbates. Both are sexy separately, but together? That can be hot, too. While mutual masturbation can look different in every relationship, it simply means your partner is included in your solo play sesh in some way think: touching yourself as your partner touches themselves, or taking turns watching each other. Chin Hing-Michaluk.

It's the hottest, most intimate thing you can do with your partner—without actually touching each other. The first time you fart in front of each other. The first time you use the same toothbrush experts say that's a no-no, btw. The moment you're pronounced partners for life. For me and my current boo, that list includes the first time we got down with our bad selves

Many of us masturbate. When I first bought my beloved Doxy mains-powered wand vibrator which rumbles with more strength than the belly of a dragon on hunger strike — I used it so much that I bruised my cooze. While travelling with friends in South East Asia, I pretended to have food poisoning just so I could spend an uninterrupted half-hour self-pleasuring in the hotel bathroom.

Social distancing is the new norm, which means getting frisky is, well, a little riskier. But you don't have to let your sex life wilt just because you're doing your part to flatten the curve — you just have to be open to trying something new. Although masturbating with your partner may not be a regular item on most sexual menus, engaging in a little mutual masturbation can up your sexual intimacy. Narrated masturbation can look like a myriad of things: One partner can masturbate while the other watches, both can get it on simultaneously, or they can alternate on and off.