Over the past decade, anal sex —or at least, talking about anal sex—has become significantly less taboo, perhaps because butts have taken on an entirely new status thanks, social media! But the thing is, anal sex can oftentimes become the preferred method for women who don't have vaginas, for those for whom vaginal penetration is especially painful, and for women who simply experience more pleasure that way, Clarke explains. For some women, it's is the cherry on top of a sexual sundae: a little extra treat that elevates something that was already delicious on its own talking about sex here. If you've yet to add anal to the menu but are curious to taste test it, there are some things you should know first:. Before your first go, you'll also want to peep these stories from women who have dabbled in butt sex and lived to tell the tale. Read on, and let their experiences guide yours.
Dear Debby, my wife loves to receive oral sex and give more than usual lately and lately she seems to like having her anus touched. I am all for helping her get off and I have no problem rubbing her rim with a finger while I am down on her. My question is about if she wants me to take it further and to slip a finger inside her anus or not. She seems to press or thrust toward my finger when I do this but without her asking me to do it I feel a little uneasy without her permission to go ahead.